Mid- Week Motivation : Stop Therapy Seeking on Social Media

Stop Therapy Seeking on Social Media

Last night I was laying in bed and it came to me just clear as day! Some wedding industry creatives can't level up because they are too busy seeking therapy all on social media. So today this Wedding Planner Mentor is making a house call to diagnose the non-sense you are doing in your business that is holding you back.  

Let me give you three examples : 

1. The "I have a Deal Seeker"  
This is for sure a lifeline call. You are not Walmart or Target on black Friday. Stop having deals and running specials . You are training people to always wait for a discounted price and pigeon holding yourself to a place I know you don't want to be. You are looking to level up so stop putting out a lifeline call for help through Facebook special offers that you need business so bad .......that you will discount it!

2. The " I am Ghetto in my news feed but professional in my Business Seeker". Okay sorry not sorry, I said it. How are you ranting on Facebook one minute using profanity in a post, posting tasteless memes, or inappropriate comments , yet you want people to see you as a professional business owner. When you become a business owner whether your Facebook is your personal page or not, everyone that you come into contact with is a potential client or a potential referral source and trust they are watching every little thing you do. Clean it up, stop the rants and play the role, the role of a polished and professional business owner. You desire to play and joke create a private group for that with your friends but don't use your Facebook page it!

3. The "Debbie Downer Seeker" again let't be real here no one wants to buy something from someone that is always going through something. Today it is a headache , tomorrow your foot fell off , next week you are single,  Friday you are  dating the love of your life, last year you were divorced. Nobody wants to book me, poor me I can't win for losing.  Today I booked 8 events- yay, next month the phone hasn't rung. Do you see the roller coaster I just took you on and how confused you were trying to figure it out , if you are using your Facebook social media account to document all your life happenings whether good or bad, potential clients are going to over look you as you don't look stable. Stop telling Facebook everything get a mentor, get an accountability partner, get somewhere and get some alone time and figure this thing out in private but stay off of Facebook trying to figure it all out !

Did I diagnose you or someone you know, don't be ashamed , just levelup , this weekly dose didn't even cost you a co-pay !

Shaun Cox of  www.TheShaunCox.com. Shaun Cox  is a Wedding Planner , Wedding Industry Mentor based in
 offering  training, consulting and education of Wedding Planners and wedding creatives nationwide. Shaun Cox is the owner of Cue the Champagne Event Planning + Design  Chattanooga and Cleveland Tennessee Premier
Wedding Planning and Event Studio Owned by Coordinator and  Senior Wedding and Event Planner Shaun Cox.
Cue the Champagne Event Planning + Design offers Wedding Day Event Management Services formerly known as Day of Wedding Coordination, Full Service Wedding Planning Services, Elopement Planning and Event Design Services for all your Social and Corporate Events.
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